5 Blessings of Being the Youngest Sibling

>> Sunday, February 20, 2011

Often the youngest siblings can feel underprivileged as the youngest person in the family. They may be called the "baby" of the family, maybe they don't seem to get as much respect, they can't "boss" anyone in their home, therefore probably giving the feeling they either aren't as important or as responsible. I know -- I am the youngest in our family!


Or, my little sister is, anyway. Jewel speaks from experience about what it can feel like to be the youngest in a family and then encourages other people in her position to see the silver lining! Click here to read what she has to say.

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A New Understanding of Proverbs 17:5

>> Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Recently, while driving me home, Dad asked, "What do you think it means to mock the poor? Have you ever experienced a situation where others were mocking them? . . . Who do you think the poor really are?"


Since mocking the poor is considered a reproach to God, it would certainly be helpful to our walk with Christ to consider what mocking really means and who the word 'poor' is referring to!




Although it is clear in the Scriptures that God has compassion on the poor in the more literal sense of the word, I came to understand that the word "poor" is not limited to finances. After all, people can be poor in looks, cant they? How about poor in talent? Or maybe poor in favorable circumstances? As I applied a more liberal definition of one being poor, the Lord opened my eyes to how the respect of persons (perhaps unwittingly out of our natural tendency to make presumptions) is abundant in these times, and how it is likewise an insult to the Creator! After all, is God not the Designer of one's physical features? Did He not providentially bestow on this or that person a certain amount of talent - or lack thereof? Is He not intimately involved in the earthly rewards of His children? 


To mock those things that God has designed, provided and allowed, is to despise [shrink in value] His perfect wisdom, authority and sovereignty. 


"Whoso mocketh the poor reproacheth his Maker."
Proverbs 17:5

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On the Road {2011 Conferences}

>> Friday, February 11, 2011


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It has been so exciting to see the Lord open doors for 2011! One of the opportunities I am most looking forward to is traveling with Bright Lights for their conferences this year. God truly blessed my time in Iowa last August at the Strong in the Lord/Radiant Purity Conferences. So many girls. So many lives. So many vessels waiting to be filled and directed by the Holy Spirit. Such tremendous potential for the glory of God!


If you live near any of the cities marked above, I would be thrilled to meet you! Here are the conference dates and locations:


Rogers, AR: April 19th - 20th ; April 22nd – 23rd


Oshkosh, WI: July 5th-6th ; 8th-9th


Omaha, NE: July 12th-13th ; 15th-16th


Collegeville, PA: August 9th-10th ; 12th-13th

Willoughby Hills, OH: August 16th-17th ; 19th-20th

Minneapolis, MN: October 4th -  5th ; October 7th - 8th 


More information about the Bright Lights ministry and conference details can be found here.


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Witnessing: Practice Makes Perfect

>> Tuesday, February 8, 2011


I had a wonderful opportunity to go visit family in Tennessee last week and, as is often the case, I quickly saw how God's hand was even in who I sat next to on my various flights. Between Chicago and Nashville, I had the opportunity to talk with a man who had a number of questions about the Bible. As is the case any time I witness, I definitely don't have all the perfect answers, and - I'll be honest - sometimes I stumble and pause and blush and wish I could crawl in a hole and die while I try to remember what reference backs up the point I was trying to make! If witnessing sometimes makes you nervous, know that you are not alone. However, we don't get good at doing anything - music, sports, art, you name it! - without practicing. The same is true of witnessing. We will never be able to get better at sharing the truth if we don't practice. I always walk away from a witnessing conversation with an unbeatable feeling of fulfillment! After talking to others about Salvation, I not only get a little better at explaining what I do understand about the Scriptures, but also get a heads up for what I don't understand, and therefore what I need to study for next time.


Here are some of the questions and comments this inquisitive man had, and some of my replies:



“What about those who have only known one religion? Say those in the Middle East who are Hindu or something, and maybe never even heard of Jesus? Do they burn in hell for eternity because no one ever told them?!”

"Titus 2:11 says, 'For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men.Even a man who hasn’t read a word of Scripture can look at a building, and know there was a builder. He can look at an airplane, and know there was a designer. If he was stranded on an island and had never heard of Jesus Christ, he could still look at the creation around him and conclude there is a Creator. Logic would then lead him to reason that the creation belongs to the Creator, which means he (being created, thus having a Creator)  is accountable to the Creator. If he chooses to believe in the existence of this Creator and proceeds in obedience to what is reasonably true about his accountability to Him, he will repent of his sins – granting him Eternal Life whether he realizes it or not. Romans 1:20 says, 'For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and and Godhead; so that they are without excuse:"


Note: it is not unjust that one would go to hell, for the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23).



“Well, I think everyone just needs to figure out what works for himself.”

"Acts 4:12 says, 'Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved .'

"John 14:6, 'I am the way the truth and the life, no man cometh unto the Father but by me.'"



"But even the Bible contradicts itself!”

“Where?”

Well in the Old Testament, we’re told, ‘eye for eye, tooth for tooth!’ but in the New Testament, Jesus says, ‘turn the other cheek.’”


"The law that teaches 'eye for eye, tooth for tooth' was a Jewish law specifically for the nation of Israel. In the NT, Jesus is teaching the way of  grace, which is a personal application of a standard higher than the law. What Jesus urges is a personal assumption of values which ascends higher than the harsh requirements of law. What He was presenting was not the abolishing of the law to be carried out by the government, but the embracing of a love-based personal standard, which exceeds the requirements of civil law." 



“Didn’t Jesus burn in hell after He died on the cross but before He rose again?”

“No. Remember – Jesus said to one of the two men being crucified beside Him, 'Verily I say unto thee, To day shalt thou be with me in paradise.' [Luke 23:43]"




“Aren’t there several levels/categories of hell?”

That is a concept not specifically declared in the Scriptures, but popularized by writers such as Dante. The Scriptures do teach severer degrees of punishment based on the measure of opportunity afforded to, but rejected by an individual. Ex.: Matthew 11:21-24 and Luke 12:42-48.





"I've read some of the Bible, but it doesn't make any sense!"

I've noted that this seems to be a common 'delima' to those who have not yet received Christ: that when they do actually decide to read the Bible, they don't really know where to read, they don't know what it means, and find it confusing and complicated, leading them to simply shrug their shoulders and walk away, leaving priceless knowledge to gather dust on their shelf.

Two things came to my mind on this subject. First, I think of the Ethiopian eunuch who read the Scriptures but did not understand them, until Philip ran and taught him. We, too, should run to help others when the Lord prompts us, and be equipped to teach others what the Bible is saying.

Secondly, I thought of how Jesus spoke in parables so often. Why did He do that, do you think? Wouldn't it have been much simpler to say things straight? He did speak very plainly on occasion, but it seems like the majority of the time, He spoke cryptically. Jesus did not cast His pearls before swine; His parables filtered out those who did not sincerely desire truth. If those that heard Him had a sincere hunger for the Word of God, they would search out what Jesus was saying, asking, "What do you mean?" but those who had no heart for the Lord were confused by what He said and walked away, learning nothing. A reminder to ask, seek, and knock!

I shared these thoughts with the man sitting next to me and emphasized the importance of studying the Scriptures, not just skimming the pages. Seek, and ye shall find. This is a promise.

One would also be wise to pray for God to open their eyes as they read the Bible, because ultimately, Salvation is a work of the Holy Spirit, not a product of our intellectual understanding.



Our family recently had dinner with some friends of ours and one of the topics that came up through the course of the evening was how the core of successful evangelism is a disciplined personal walk with Christ. It all starts in our shoes, behind our closed doors, in our small decisions: to read the Bible today or not, to pray long or not, to submit to parents or not, to obey the promptings of the Spirit or not. All of these choices will play into our ability to successfully, powerfully influence others to the Kingdom.

This concept was confirmed when the man I talked with began to enquire after my own personal decisions, possibly to determine if I truly believed what I was telling him:

"Have you read the Bible from cover to cover? How many times?"

"How often do you read the Bible? How much do you read a day?"

"What are you currently doing with your life?"

We discussed how Christianity must be more than just belief in Christ because James 2:19 says, "Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble," and certainly it is more than just attending Church and following the "golden rule". But rather, salvation involves  repentance and a transfer of our faith in our own ability to earn Salvation through our good works, to the Savior's ability to cover our sins with His substitutionary death on Calvary.

The man I talked with seemed genuinely curious, intellectually honest and open to truth, and so towards the end of our conversation, I left him with some tracts to read, as well as my dad's email address, should he have any more questions. 

Now it's your turn to practice! :)


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A Joyful Heart, A Beautiful Heart

>> Wednesday, February 2, 2011


"She is so beautiful."  I thought to myself.

She was delighted to be on her way to church on the bus, it showed in her radiant smile. I would look her way and see a woman confident, secure, unassuming, and bubbling with joy. She held a wrinkled, tattered sheet of handwritten verses in front of her and intently practiced them in between helping this or that child hobbling their way up the bus to find her. I didn't sense any trace of self-consciousness or vanity or fear of man . . . she was simply herself. Unmasked. Uninfluenced by her culture's fashion statements. Completely genuine and sweet. Tenderhearted. Happy. Beautiful.


How quickly we fall into the trap of thinking our attractiveness is hinged on our outfit, jewelry, or hair! Isn't it foolish? In the light of eternity, will it really matter if we were perfectly put together outwardly? Are we drawing others to Christ by the way we dress or simply getting a reputation for being 'style-savvy'?  Even the most beautiful women in the world, when asked if they could change something about themselves, said they would if they were given the opportunity. The ideal appearance does not exist.  We can rejoice to know that everything about our physical design was providentially created for our individual calling ~ by a God whose wisdom far surpasses ours.


Last Sunday I went with my cousins and family to their church in Tennessee and as I sat listening to the choir, I immediately noticed one young lady. The choir was no small bunch, but this lady stood out among all of them because of her amazing countenance. As I watched her sing, I couldn't help but reflect her smile; her face lit up as she joyfully glorified God with her voice and contented spirit.

Beauty is an inward thing. If you are a joyful person, people will think you are beautiful. It's true! People love happy people. Joyfulness is not only beautiful, it is contagious and uplifting! Take the time to watch people at the next event you attend, and you will see those who are surrounded and cherished by others are those who are content, confident . . . joyful. Joyful, not simply as a result of the love of those around them, but loved because of their choice to be joyful. I find myself hardly noticing a person's choice of clothes, physical features or hair style at all when they wear a radiant smile. Let us purpose to reflect well on the provision of God ~ let us purpose to be beautiful . . . to be joyful. :)


Yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will joy in the God of my salvation.
The LORD God is my strength, and he will make my feet like hinds' feet, and he will make me to walk upon mine high places.
Habakkuk 3:18-19a

The LORD hath done great things for us; whereof we are glad.
Psalm 126:3

A merry heart doeth good like a medicine:
Proverbs 17:22a

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